What’s better: 

    The Majestic Mountain Peak or the Lush Valley?
         Hot or Cold?
              Hard or Soft?
                   Wet or Dry?

Without one, would the other even exist? 

We live in a world of apparent opposites, of polarity. Our planet’s rotation and very existence depends on the magnetic poles of North and South. You could say that polarity is a kind of universal law. When it comes to human sexuality we are wise to remember this. 

The women’s equality movement and modern liberalism in general has brought many benefits. Men and women are now positioned to move forward with the understanding that we are QUANTITATIVE equals, that is, neither is inherently superior or inferior to the other. However, if we ignore our QUALITATIVE differences, our relationships will continue to suffer. 

It is the polarity between masculine and feminine that provides the attraction, the magnetic pull and even the drive for evolutionary and spiritual growth.

Try to flatten the mountains and fill in the valleys, and you’ll create a “flatland” relationship. Do away with hot and cold and you get eternal lukewarm. Yuck.

Wouldn’t you rather learn to bring the power that makes the world go ’round into your intimate relationship?

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