Gender Synergy 101: New Hope For Relationships

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“I’ve learned the value of being totally present with the woman I’m with. I’m able to communicate directly despite any fear or misgivings, and I’ve let go of attachment to how my expressions are recieved. I feel like I’m being true to myself and to her, and creating a space where love can truly flourish. The results have been amazing.” ~ Tomas Hicks, Vancouver BC

Most of us have a reasonably accurate understanding of the differences between masculine qualities and feminine qualities. At this time in our culture, ignoring or challenging these differences is common. Ignoring them is rather futile, it’s like pretending that there is no hot or cold, no sweet or salty. Challenging them is a healthy part of our evolution, but must eventually give way to something else.

All of us, men and women, contain and express BOTH masculine and feminine qualities. In other words, we all run both masculine and feminine energies, by varying degrees (It’s also worth noting that these energies can both run “light” to “dark”).

Traditionally, men have run predominantly masculine energy, while women have run predominantly feminine. This was largely unconscious and a product of the times. Certainly biology, social construct, environment and so on all played a roll.

More recently, times have changed. Circumstances and consciousness have changed. Women have largely led the way, rising into their power and embodying more of their masculine energy. Simultaneously, men have been quietly discovering their feelings and embodying more feminine energy. This has been an important step, but the common error of our time is to assume that we have finished here, that by becoming “50/50″ or even reversing our gender poles, we have finally achieved balance, or equality. 

Ah yes, equality.

This relatively recent move toward social, economic and political equality between the sexes has been absolutely necessary. But, an equality that does not recognize the inherent QUALITATIVE differences between masculine and feminine throws the baby out with the bath-water.

The opportunity that the Gender Synergy model provides, is for men today to INTEGRATE the feminine qualities they’ve discovered in themselves, to draw freely on them when this will be in service, but to CHOOSE generally to honour and lean into their masculine core, especially in relationship to their woman. For women, integrating their masculine qualities, drawing on them when appropriate, and CHOOSING to generally relax into their feminine core is the possibility.

Some people fear a return to “pre-equality” when I talk about this, and it is crucial to understand the difference between “pre-equality” and “trans-equality.” In the the pre-equality stage, there is no conscious choice. Men and women are locked into roles. In the trans-equality or Gender Synergy stage, women have discovered and integrated their masculine qualities, men have discovered and integrated their feminine qualities, and both CHOOSE to mostly inhabit their authentic core gender energies, KNOWING THAT THEY CAN DRAW ON BOTH MASCULINE AND FEMININE ENERGIES WHEN THEY CHOOSE. This creates a healthy sexual polarity or charge between men and women that is largely missing today (yes, there are same-sex relationship applications too).

Find out how to put these powerful principles to work in your relationship and life.

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All My Best,

Coach Justice

“Justice - Thanks for your coaching insights. I have found our sessions highly motivating for both my work and personal life. The gender synergy information was truly enlightening for me. It’s astounding - learning and applying new models of behaviour. Thanks for being a positive force in my life!”  ~ Kevin Beesley-Hammond, Co-owner Mint Records

“The Gender Synergy model allows guys to instantly understand where all the drama and turmoil in relationships stem from and how we can let it all go, simply by living in our own true nature as men.  Justice provides guys with the wisdom and clarity needed for creating  enjoyable and intimate relationships while still coming from a place of power.” ~ Ryan Randolph, YangTown.com